Meet The Team

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About us

Over 50+ years combined experience

Changes4Life was founded in 2002 by Vanessa Boudier in Reading, Berkshire. Since then Changes4Life has expanded across the counties of Hampshire and Oxfordshire and now provides Counselling, Psychotherapy, Hypnotherapy, EMDR/IEMT, DBT and specialist ADHD Coaching services to adults.

The practice is well known as one of the most sought after therapy practices in the Home Counties, due the experience and dedication of their team of counsellors and therapists. This experience is the reason their clients experience significant change, build resilience, create success, build self esteem, confidence and regain control over their life to create better and happier futures.

Vanessa and the Changes4Life team pride themselves on offering you a confidential, open-minded, “down to earth," professional and caring approach. This ethos is at the heart of each team members practice.

All of the team undertake regular continued professional development ensuring they are up to date with the latest regulations and developments.

The team all have different disciplines and specialist areas so please feel free to check through if there is a particular area that you would like to address.

Life has a little habit of ‘happening’

We don’t know what we don’t yet know, and because of this we can sometimes experience challenges in different degrees at various times in our lives. We may need a little support to work through them and it is important to reach out and engage with trained professionals who are approachable, professional and compassionate. Our team understand that clients can benefit from an integrative approach where counselling and psychotherapy sessions can also include Hypnotherapy, Coaching, NLP or EMDR to help them work through the challenges in the shortest possible time using an approach tailored individually to them.

Within Changes4Life the quality of therapeutic relationship is nurtured, we focus on helping our clients feel heard, comfortable, safe and able to express themselves, which means they can make sense of their challenges quickly whilst working towards taking control back of their life once again.

It can be very normal for new clients to feel a little nervous, or even vulnerable, when considering disclosing private and personal information to someone they don’t know. This is the reason that we offer every client a free 15 minute telephone call with their chosen team member where they can get to know each other, whilst exploring and identifing the best approach, and to help the client feel at ease with the process.

Our Our Counsellors & Therapists

Vanessa Boudier - Changes 4 Life

Vanessa Boudier

Founder, ADHD Specialist Psychotherapist and ICF Coach


natalie Burley - Changes4Life

Natalie Burley

Counsellor for couples and individuals, Hypnotherapist,IEMT Practitioner


Andrea Sharman - Changes 4 Life

Andrea Sharman

Psychotherapeutic Counsellor


 Dr. Kate Blackford - Changes4Life

Dr. Kate Blackford

Psychologist, Cognitive Hypnotherapist and IEMT Practitioner


Keri Powell - Changes 4 Life

Keri Powell

Pluralistic Counsellor, Clinical Hypnotherapist, EMDR Practitioner


Victora Jackman - Changes4Life

Victoria Jackman

Counsellor & Hypnotherapist


Hannah Benson - Changes 4 Life

Rebecca Minter

ADHD Coach and Executive Coach


Sara Yorke - Changes4Life

Sara Yorke

Counsellor, Coach and NLP Practitioner. Wellbeing, Attachment and Menopause specialist Practitioner


Deborah Winyard - Changes 4 Life

Deborah Winyard

Hypnotherapist and EMDR Practitioner


Lada Shustova-Carter

Relationship Counsellor and Supervisor


Mandy Kaur Lal - Changes 4 Life

Mandee Kaur Lal

Family Therapist. Therapeutic Coach for Young People. Grief Specialist


Paul Hradek

Cognitive Hypnotherapist & IEMT Practitioner


Sarah Holmes- Changes4Life

Sarah Holmes

Counsellor


Andree Kenny- Changes4Life

Andree Kenny

ADHD & Dyslexia Coach


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Jasmin King profile pictureJasmin King
19:49 04 Nov 25
Working with Vanessa through Access to Work has been a game changer. She’s approachable, straight talking, and professional - no fluff, just real understanding. What I’ve valued most is her practical grasp of ADHD, both in business and everyday life, and her ability to create simple systems that actually work!

In just a few sessions, we’ve covered so much that’s already reduced my overwhelm and decision fatigue. I’m seeing calmer days, smoother client management, and more headspace to focus on my business future.

If you want realistic, sustainable strategies delivered with empathy and accountability, I can’t recommend Vanessa enough. She’s genuinely helped me shift my mindset and find clear direction in how I run my business - life changing actually, and that is not an exaggeration!
Andree Kenny profile pictureAndree Kenny
11:55 24 Oct 25
Working with Vanessa has been life-changing as an individual with ADHD. She created a space where I felt genuinely safe to unmask, which allowed me to realise just how much I had been people-pleasing for years. Her gentle, strengths-based approach helped me rebuild my confidence and trust in myself. When we started, I didn’t believe I could do certain things, and by the end, I was doing them. I’m so grateful for her support, and I highly recommend Vanessa to anyone looking for compassionate and empowering ADHD coaching.
molly white profile picturemolly white
13:02 15 Aug 25
I have been supported for the last 6-7 years, and it has changed my life, without the honest, caring and productive therapy I have had I don’t know who I would be. I have been able to heal, speak my inner thoughts that I would never have shared with friends or family and feel understood. It’s not just speaking about how you feel. It’s digging out things you’d never thought of and finding productive ways to improve and heal. I highly recommend
Chloe Barker profile pictureChloe Barker
12:18 14 Aug 25
Engaging in coaching with Vanessa is single handedly the most worthwhile investment in myself that I’ve ever made. The sessions were so well planned, as were the tasks I’d undertake in between times. I felt I was able to be my complete self throughout and Vanessa has helped me live a life that is truer to my values and I can see the impact this is having in such a positive way. Hoping to continue sessions for the long term!
Ben Jaques profile pictureBen Jaques
11:36 27 Jan 25
I am so incredibly grateful for Vanessa at Changes4 Life for helping to continue my difficult journey with Charlotte, having already started it with her! Thank you Vanessa.
Changes 4 Life offer a safe a relaxing environment to help with life's ups and downs.

Charlotte has a lovely calming nature which I found extremely helpful and totally at ease with, when deciphering my difficulties. Since I have been working with Charlotte for about 8-9 months now, I have been going from strength to strength.

Charlotte is thorough in all that she works on as well as has many strengths; one of these is a knack of letting you talk then guides you slightly sideways showing the situation from a unique perspective. This method I have found extremely effective. Charlotte has guided me through some very dark times, along the way, and, utilizing her exceptional help and guidance, I am now in a better place.

I am now finding situations where I am starting to do things which stop me from going down wrong paths-without thinking! Charlotte has ‘taught’ me well!

Charlotte has helped me through an exceedingly challenging time in my life, and I have learned a lot about how to live it and how Charlotte has made it better. Thank you Charlotte.
Pete D profile picturePete D
13:46 17 Dec 24
After only 3 sessions with Vanessa, things are moving in a very positive direction - with her help I have definitely turned a corner! Our conversations are changing my perspective and helping boost my confidence. I'm letting go of old habits and adopting healthier ones.

Three specific examples:
a) My desk stays clear every day.
b) I caught up on five months of expense claims and I'm current for this month - what a relief!
c) My communication skills are improving as I become more mindful of my words.

My wife has also commented on how good and effective Vanessa is, and she can see - and enjoy the benefits.
Vanessa, thank you!
Sev C. profile pictureSev C.
05:33 22 Oct 24
For those looking for ADHD support, I strongly recommend Vanessa. Through her ADHD coaching practice, she offers a calm, compassionate, and generous presence that naturally invites self-reflection. In this comforting environment, new ideas emerge effortlessly, leading to tangible progress through concrete strategies.
Tom Barnes profile pictureTom Barnes
13:00 13 May 24
fantastic service really helped me through some challenging times, Vanessa is incredible made me feel very comfortable and really gave me the tools and information I needed to start making some better choices
Nathan Chapman profile pictureNathan Chapman
02:21 14 Apr 24
Working with Vanessa was a really fantastic experience. She is incredibly knowledgeable, understanding and passionate about mental health. She also has excellent knowledge of ADHD and can help those struggling with ADHD to help manager their day-to day-symptoms.

She was able to be completely flexible with how she worked, completely giving me freedom in how I wanted therapy to be structured and the topics I wanted to discuss. She was able to easily swap between a therapeutic approach, exploring trauma or relationship issues, or a coaching approach offering practical strategies to help with day to day life.

Throughout our time working together, Vanessa was always very compassionate and warm. She was always engaged showing a genuine and caring approach which helped create a safe place where I felt comfortable talking about difficult personal topics

I can't thank her enough for the time we spent together and would thoroughly recommend her to anybody who would like to learn more about themselves, improve their mental health and learn practical strategies to help them with day to day life.
Charlotte Wheeler profile pictureCharlotte Wheeler
21:18 14 Dec 23
A very safe and comfortable environment that’s created and that really goes hand in hand with the support offered.