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Understanding ADHD

ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is a neurodevelopmental condition that can affect attention, activity levels, impulsivity, emotions, relationships and everyday life. While ADHD is often associated with difficulties concentrating or staying organised, it can affect people in many different ways.

For adults, ADHD can influence work, relationships, family life, confidence and the ability to manage everyday responsibilities. Some people may have lived with these difficulties for years without understanding why certain situations feel harder than they seem for others.

ADHD counselling can provide a supportive, non-judgemental space to understand how ADHD affects you and explore ways to manage the emotional and practical challenges that can come with it.

How Can ADHD Affect Everyday Life?

ADHD can present differently from person to person. Some people primarily experience difficulties with attention, while others may experience hyperactivity, impulsivity or a combination of symptoms.

Common areas that can be affected include:

  • Attention: Difficulty maintaining focus, becoming easily distracted or struggling with working memory.
  • Hyperactivity: A need for movement, restlessness or having a busy and active mind.
  • Impulsivity: Acting or speaking without thinking, difficulty pausing before making decisions and challenges with managing responses.
  • Emotional regulation: Difficulty managing frustration, stress, overwhelm or strong emotions.
  • Organisation: Challenges with planning, prioritising, time management and completing tasks.
  • Relationships: Difficulties with communication, misunderstandings or managing the impact of ADHD on relationships.

These challenges can affect confidence and wellbeing and may sometimes lead to feelings of frustration, anxiety or being overwhelmed. ADHD counselling can help you understand these patterns and develop strategies that work for you.


What to Expect from ADHD Counselling

ADHD counselling is tailored to your individual circumstances, experiences and goals. Rather than taking a one-size-fits-all approach, your counsellor will work with you to understand the areas of life where you would like additional support.

Depending on your needs, sessions may involve:

  • Exploring how ADHD affects your thoughts, feelings and everyday life
  • Understanding emotional responses and developing emotional regulation strategies
  • Managing stress, frustration and feelings of overwhelm
  • Developing strategies for organisation, planning and time management
  • Exploring challenges around work, relationships and family life
  • Building confidence and developing a better understanding of yourself
  • Identifying unhelpful thought patterns and developing healthier ways of responding
  • Developing coping strategies for challenges and setbacks

Your counsellor will work collaboratively with you, providing a safe space where you can talk openly about your experiences without judgement. The aim is to help you develop a better understanding of yourself and find practical ways to manage the challenges ADHD may bring.


ADHD Counselling and ADHD Coaching

ADHD Counselling or ADHD Coaching?

ADHD counselling and ADHD coaching can both provide valuable support, but they have different areas of focus. Understanding the difference can help you decide which type of support may be most appropriate for your circumstances.

ADHD counselling focuses more on the emotional and psychological aspects of living with ADHD. It can help you explore thoughts, feelings, relationships, self-esteem, emotional regulation and the impact ADHD may have had on different areas of your life.

ADHD coaching tends to be more practical and goal-focused. Coaching can help you develop strategies for areas such as organisation, time management, prioritising tasks, routines and achieving specific goals.

At Changes4Life, our counsellors either have lived experience of ADHD and/or have undertaken additional specialist ADHD training, helping them understand the different ways ADHD can affect everyday life.

Finding the Right ADHD Support for You

You don't need to have everything figured out before getting in touch. Whether you're looking for ADHD counselling, practical ADHD coaching or you're unsure which type of support would be most suitable, we can talk through your circumstances and help you explore your options.

Our approach is warm, supportive and non-judgemental, with sessions tailored to your individual needs and goals.

Fees: From £85.00 per session (usually 50 minutes).

If you'd like to find out more about ADHD counselling and how we can support you, get in touch and one of our specialist ADHD counsellors can discuss your needs with you.

Or fill out our contact form below and we will get back to you.

Frequently asked ADHD Counselling questions:

The exact causes of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) are not fully understood, but research suggests that several factors may play a role in its development. These include:

  1. Genetics: ADHD tends to run in families, which suggests that genes may play a role in its development. Studies have found that children with ADHD are more likely to have a parent or sibling with the condition.
  2. Brain development: Research suggests that certain areas of the brain may be smaller or function differently in people with ADHD. These areas include the prefrontal cortex, which is involved in attention and impulse control, and the basal ganglia, which is involved in movement.
  3. Environmental factors: Exposure to certain toxins during pregnancy, such as alcohol, nicotine, or lead, may increase the risk of ADHD. Premature birth, low birth weight, and brain injury are also associated with an increased risk of ADHD.
  4. Other disorders: Children with other disorders such as anxiety, depression, or learning disorders, may have a higher risk of developing ADHD.

It is important to note that ADHD is a complex disorder and the cause of ADHD may be different for every individual, and it is also likely a combination of multiple factors. Research is ongoing in this area and it is expected that new discoveries will help to better understand how ADHD develops.

Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a complex condition that likely arises from a combination of genetic and environmental factors. Research suggests that genes play a role in the development of ADHD, as the condition tends to run in families. Children who have a parent or sibling with ADHD are more likely to develop the condition themselves.

However, it is not clear whether ADHD is solely caused by genetic factors or if there is also an environmental component. Exposure to certain toxins during pregnancy, such as alcohol, nicotine, or lead, may increase the risk of ADHD. Premature birth, low birth weight, and brain injury can also be associated with an increased risk of ADHD.

It is also worth noting that ADHD symptoms can present differently in different people, and the onset can be different too, some people may have symptoms from early childhood, while others may not develop symptoms until later in life.

In summary, while genetic factors may play a role in the development of ADHD, it is likely that a combination of genetic and environmental factors contribute to the condition. 

There are several different therapy treatments that can be used to help individuals with ADHD, including:

Behavioural therapy: Behavioural therapy is a type of therapy that focuses on modifying behaviours that are associated with ADHD. Techniques such as positive reinforcement, token economies, and parent training can be used to teach children and adolescents new behaviours and improve their functioning at home, school, and other environments.

Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of talk therapy that can help individuals with ADHD to recognize and change negative patterns of thinking and behaviour. It can be used to help individuals improve their organizational skills, time-management, and problem-solving abilities.

Social skills training: Social skills training can be useful for individuals with ADHD who have difficulties with social interactions. This type of therapy can help to teach individuals the skills they need to interact effectively with others.

Parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT): PCIT is a type of therapy that can be used to help parents of children with ADHD to improve their parenting skills and the relationship with their child.

Parent Coaching: supporting parents to improve their parenting skills, deepen their understanding of ADHD and develop strategies that have proven success and help their child develop a stronger self esteem.

It’s important to note that the best therapy treatment for ADHD will depend on the individual’s specific needs and preferences, as well as the severity of their symptoms. A combination of therapy and medication may be the most effective approach. 

Medications such as stimulants (e.g. Elvanse, Concerta) and non-stimulants (e.g. Strattera) have been found to be effective in reducing symptoms of ADHD in children, teens, and adults. These can only be prescribed by a clinician following formal diagnosis. 

There are several organisations in the United Kingdom that provide information and support for people with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Some of the most reputable ones are:

  1. ADHD UK: a national charity that provides information, support, and advocacy for individuals with ADHD and their families. They also provide training for professionals and run support groups across the UK.
  2. ADDISS: the National Attention Deficit Disorder Information and Support Service, which provides information, advice, and support for people with ADHD and their families, as well as for professionals working with them.
  3. The National Autistic Society: also provide information and support for individuals with ADHD and their families, as well as training for professionals.
  4. The National Health Service (NHS) in UK: provides information on ADHD and its diagnosis, treatment and support options, as well as general information on mental health conditions. You can find more information on the NHS website or by speaking to your GP.
  5. The British Psychological Society: provides information and resources for professionals working with individuals with ADHD.

These organizations can provide information on the causes, symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment of ADHD, as well as resources and support for individuals and families affected by the condition. They can also provide information on local support groups, counselling, and other forms of help.

ADHD is often treated with a combination of medication and therapy. Medication, such as stimulants, can help with attention and hyperactivity. Therapy can help a person learn skills to manage their symptoms and improve their relationships and overall well-being. 

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Evelyne Kroval
8 months ago
Really enjoyed my ADHD coaching with Vanessa. She's incredibly insightful and well-paced, adaptable to the new things I bring. Always had a great way of bringing the session to focus in a way that felt congruent to my goals.
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Lydia O
9 months ago
I’ve had a wonderful experience of ADHD coaching with Vanessa. She is full of insight, has a kind approach and tailor designs all the coaching to your goals. She takes the time to get into the detail and analyse to ensure accuracy in support, and also works holistically to keep all areas of your life in mind. The thing that stood out to me most was her strength based approach to ADHD - I feel empowered to lean into my gifts rather than purely focus on managing difficulties. Thank you so much!
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Jasmin King
11 months ago
Working with Vanessa through Access to Work has been a game changer. She’s approachable, straight talking, and professional - no fluff, just real understanding. What I’ve valued most is her practical grasp of ADHD, both in business and everyday life, and her ability to create simple systems that actually work!

In just a few sessions, we’ve covered so much that’s already reduced my overwhelm and decision fatigue. I’m seeing calmer days, smoother client management, and more headspace to focus on my business future.

If you want realistic, sustainable strategies delivered with empathy and accountability, I can’t recommend Vanessa enough. She’s genuinely helped me shift my mindset and find clear direction in how I run my business - life changing actually, and that is not an exaggeration!
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Andree Kenny
11 months ago
Working with Vanessa has been life-changing as an individual with ADHD. She created a space where I felt genuinely safe to unmask, which allowed me to realise just how much I had been people-pleasing for years. Her gentle, strengths-based approach helped me rebuild my confidence and trust in myself. When we started, I didn’t believe I could do certain things, and by the end, I was doing them. I’m so grateful for her support, and I highly recommend Vanessa to anyone looking for compassionate and empowering ADHD coaching.
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molly white
1 year ago
I have been supported for the last 6-7 years, and it has changed my life, without the honest, caring and productive therapy I have had I don’t know who I would be. I have been able to heal, speak my inner thoughts that I would never have shared with friends or family and feel understood. It’s not just speaking about how you feel. It’s digging out things you’d never thought of and finding productive ways to improve and heal. I highly recommend
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Chloe Barker
1 year ago
Engaging in coaching with Vanessa is single handedly the most worthwhile investment in myself that I’ve ever made. The sessions were so well planned, as were the tasks I’d undertake in between times. I felt I was able to be my complete self throughout and Vanessa has helped me live a life that is truer to my values and I can see the impact this is having in such a positive way. Hoping to continue sessions for the long term!
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Pete D
2 years ago
After only 3 sessions with Vanessa, things are moving in a very positive direction - with her help I have definitely turned a corner! Our conversations are changing my perspective and helping boost my confidence. I'm letting go of old habits and adopting healthier ones.

Three specific examples:
a) My desk stays clear every day.
b) I caught up on five months of expense claims and I'm current for this month - what a relief!
c) My communication skills are improving as I become more mindful of my words.

My wife has also commented on how good and effective Vanessa is, and she can see - and enjoy the benefits.
Vanessa, thank you!
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Sev C.
2 years ago
For those looking for ADHD support, I strongly recommend Vanessa. Through her ADHD coaching practice, she offers a calm, compassionate, and generous presence that naturally invites self-reflection. In this comforting environment, new ideas emerge effortlessly, leading to tangible progress through concrete strategies.
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Tom Barnes
2 years ago
fantastic service really helped me through some challenging times, Vanessa is incredible made me feel very comfortable and really gave me the tools and information I needed to start making some better choices
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Nathan Chapman
2 years ago
Working with Vanessa was a really fantastic experience. She is incredibly knowledgeable, understanding and passionate about mental health. She also has excellent knowledge of ADHD and can help those struggling with ADHD to help manager their day-to day-symptoms.

She was able to be completely flexible with how she worked, completely giving me freedom in how I wanted therapy to be structured and the topics I wanted to discuss. She was able to easily swap between a therapeutic approach, exploring trauma or relationship issues, or a coaching approach offering practical strategies to help with day to day life.

Throughout our time working together, Vanessa was always very compassionate and warm. She was always engaged showing a genuine and caring approach which helped create a safe place where I felt comfortable talking about difficult personal topics

I can't thank her enough for the time we spent together and would thoroughly recommend her to anybody who would like to learn more about themselves, improve their mental health and learn practical strategies to help them with day to day life.
A very safe and comfortable environment that’s created and that really goes hand in hand with the support offered.
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Paul Brereton
3 years ago
It's hard to express in words how fantastic Vanessa is! Her kindness, understanding and professionalism shone through from the start, all in a very safe and comfortable space. I felt a deep connection from the first time we spoke and undertaking a journey with Vanessa has resulted in significant changes for me - changes for life! I cannot recommend Vanessa highly enough - a truly wonderful person.
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Amelie M
3 years ago
I would highly recommend Vanessa for EMDR! After suffering with quite a specific anxiety for a number of years, Vanessa was very understanding, honest and committed to helping me work through this. She created a really safe and comfortable environment and in turn I always looked forwards to my sessions with her. I couldn’t be happier with the changes i’ve seen in myself and the end result of feeling uplifted and positive about my future! Thank you so much Vanessa, I am so glad i came across you and your amazing work 🥰.
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Laura Collett
4 years ago
I’ve been seeing Vanessa for a whole host of different and complex mental health reasons for a number of years. Sometimes I go for months and months without needing her support and other times I see her weekly - that’s one of the great things about her, the adaptability to my needs. Vanessa is supportive, professional, and extremely knowledgeable across a wide breadth of issues and treatments / approaches. Without doubt the best therapist I have ever worked with and I couldn’t recommend her more highly.
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Christine Taylor
4 years ago
Vanessa was recommended through a close friend and I cannot thank them both enough. Since our sessions began a little under a year ago Vanessa has helped me create a deeper understanding of myself and others and has equipped me with the knowledge to continue to improve my life, I’ll be forever grateful for this! Vanessa is a very warming, professional and highly experienced therapist and I look forward to developing myself more with her help 🙂
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LOUISE MOUNTAIN
4 years ago
Vanessa was recommended to me by a friend, earlier this summer and turned out to be exactly what I needed in order to help me sort out my issues.
She is very down-to-earth and sensible and after asking questions and really listening to what one has to say, has a lot of insight into what may be troubling you - which she easily translates into ways that show a depth of discernment with understanding and sympathy, combined with practical help based on both theory and practical experience.
Within weeks I was able to see a way forward and regain my sense of purpose.
I cannot recommend Vanessa highly enough.
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Claire Edwards
5 years ago
Vanessa is a very caring, compassionate and experienced counsellor. She makes you feel at ease even when it may feel hard to open up, I found her very easy to talk to. There are no words to completely describe just how much she has helped me and how our sessions have already had such a positive impact on my life. I highly recommend Vanessa and thank her from the bottom of my heart for helping me.
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Tamsin Paola
5 years ago
My daughter (age 9) has been seeing Vanessa for several months. Vanessa does such a good job of engaging her in a variety of activities and she looks forward to every session. As a result of the sessions, my daughter is clearly gaining an understanding of herself that is helping her to better manage some of her challenges. I also feel I have learnt so much about my daughter and how I can support her. Vanessa is extremely approachable, professional and supportive and I’d highly recommend her services.